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无论你是快乐的,痛苦的,平静的,烦躁的,每天早晨,太阳照常升起。它对一切都无动于衷。
小孩每天都接触新东西,有新体验,所以天天有期待
大人原地打转,了无生趣。
所以在有条件情况下,应该每年都学新东西,新技能。
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我在墓地很想你
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中国医护里拍到一个外卖小哥
他送外卖途中撞到了栏杆,明明自己痛得难受还在操心订单。医生问他家人联系方式,他沉默。他们翻他手机,手机里只有客户。好不容易找到了他一个在杭州的朋友。
中间小哥一直说他不治疗了,他没有钱,还在惦记没送完的单子。
朋友是一起送外卖认识的。他骑了两个小时快40公里来看他。小哥是孤儿,被人收养以后16岁再次被遗弃。小哥也是刚来杭州,还没赚上钱就受伤了。
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和牛人最重要的学什么?
我自己会观察这几点
1.对方是如何看待这件事情的?
这是学习对方看问题的视角和维度,以及对方从一件事情里抽取了什么不一样的信息。通常这些会极大的提升我们看问题的高度和颗粒度
2.对方处理问题的策略和方向是是什么?
这里学习的是对方的应对策略,每个人都有一套应对世界和事件的方式,牛人的经历和阅历丰富,往往处理起来更周全,或者更有值得学习的微操
所以这是向上学习的精髓,而不是直接问别人自己该怎么办,我们需要的是拓展自己的视野和颗粒度,再去个性化的做出自己的选择
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自媒体只是杠杆,换个渠道把你的,产品,技能,业务,知识,名气,人格魅力……无限放大。
如果本身什么都没有,想在自媒体上混口饭吃,很难的。
除非误打误撞赶上红利了,学会了管理,运营能落地,业务能保持增长。那没有办法这财运是你的,怎么也跑不掉的。
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巴以冲突那是政治家的事,大家是旁观者,如果观察了解这几十年的纷争,普通人能得到什么借鉴?
一,远离宗教
二,不要脑袋一热就干架
三,尽量不要去排外或宗族势力比较强的城市或地区工作学习,旅游除外
四,如果碰到个学霸,要学习,不要妒忌更不要排斥
五,口号喊的越响亮,越可能是骗子,目的可能在于洗脑你收割你控制你
六,看清猪头,远离猪头,特别是有权力的猪,他们需要底层喂养
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这个尺度,大家理解的是艺术还是色情
齐泽克:如果一个人向另一个人过度敞开自己的心扉,这种心灵开放很容易变成令人作呕的入侵。在《公民凯恩》的开头和结尾,那句著名的标识语“别越界!”两度出现,其意义也正在于此。进入他人最隐秘的角落是高度危险的行为,如果你的所得超出了要求,突然之间,你就发现你已经陷入一片滑湿肮脏的地带,这时你想再回头,已经晚了。你深深景仰某个权威,甚至想了解更多关于他的事情,可是,当这个权威允许了你的请求,给予你信任,同你分享他内心最深处的创伤时,权威的光环瞬间消失得无影无踪,你唯一想做的就是逃走。或许,标志着真正友谊的特征正是知道何时该打住,别越过某道门槛,向你的朋友“倾倒一切”。我们向心理医生“倾倒一切”,可也正因为那样,心理医生永远成不了我们的朋友。,《幻想的瘟疫》
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在你这里看到的全是艺术
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跳完了
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想吃肯德基,43,谁请我
有了
谢谢妹妹。
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大家谁再去朝台的话,喊着我
我是专业的
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我准备把这个卖掉
一年开不了几次
保养一次天价
跟新车一样
膜都没撕
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325吗
恩,你不是也买了同款吗
恩,是同款
好好开的小白
我开的话就有点娘了
绝对的,我老公也不喜欢
他还没你高大
广西人比山东人矮,但是长。
谁买到你车又捡漏了,
这是渣女说的
这个,我没有发言权
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https://weibo.com/tv/show/1034:4956849410343007?from=old_pc_videoshow P!nk《What’s Up》现场版 25年过去,我的一生依旧波澜不惊……P!nk的这个现场称得上这首歌的最佳翻唱版本了,没有之一!
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「敌人的敌人,不一定就是我们朋友,也可能是人类的公敌。」
我经常说那些渣男海王都是low 蛋,这辈子啥追求都没有,事业上绝对不可能有成就,更谈不上什么思想高度精神素养,他们也就只能立立人设搞些花里胡哨的套路在女人身上找自信,恨不得把所有女性优势都用到自己身上。
毕竟雄性的世界不接纳他们,雄竞是很残酷的,要的是脚踏实地的打拼,而不是爱慕虚荣急功近利,只想吃软饭。很多海王都没啥男性朋友只能混女人堆,因为男人会崇拜认可的是真大哥,而不是徒有其表的low蛋。
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「相比专栏或者公众号之类的比较零散的框架,书的目录要更加严谨和专业。所以构建知识地图,我唯一的建议就是从书的目录去获取。」by《另一种天才》
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这个我每一条都信,因为我经历过,或者说,正在经历着。
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